Thanks for the feedback. I bit the bullet and sent her a message, asking about Tuesday...saying that we didn't have to consider it a date, but I'd love to maybe just have drinks and talk...said to let me know if she's up for something like that. I purposefully stayed away from the phrase 'meet just as friends.' I do NOT want to get myself put in the friends box.
That used to happen to me all the time when I was younger.
My gut feeling is that she's interested, despite the new info. Hope I'm right. *fingers crossed*