Welcome to our forum.
It sounds like you and the wife/girlfriend have a semi-romantic relationship, or a very close emotional relationship? How long have the three of you been together? (Just curious.)
You should be able to engage in a lot of cool and edifying conversations here. Keep checking out our threads, and post any thoughts or questions you may have.
It's great to have you aboard!
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