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Old 01-10-2010, 12:23 AM
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Yeahhh ... I'm trying to figure out what your fi's rush is.

This is a relationship building, right? You don't show up for a first date with a girl with a ring in your pocket ready to propose under "normal" circumstances. Why would you do it when pursuing a poly relationship?

SEems like your fiance thinks that this is just a done deal? I think you should talk to him and ask him why he wants to move so fast. See what his thoughts are behind trying to create an instant relationship.

I wouldn't proceed with it until you know what's going on in his mind.
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