What an intense, emotional time for everyone! My heart goes out to Lin... it seems merciful, at least, that he got a clear answer, versus a situation in which he was still infertile and yet no one could tell him for sure, leaving the question of whether to try in limbo. Wishing you and Sward the very best of luck, of course!
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.