Hello! New Here & to Poly (NM)
I'd like to introduce myself. I'm new to actively finding a poly relationship, and so reading articles and posts, I definitely like the vibe here...
I live in northern New Mexico, married and with a beautiful daughter. I'm somewhat shy at first, but a regular guy with a full-time job as a writer, and have been told I'm handsome and fun to be around. My wife and I have been together 14 years, and recently discussed how different we really are: different levels of intimacy, communication, sharing of souls, and sex drive. I let her know I was starving for these things, and she understood, and is okay with me finding a poly situation. A few friends have told me to face the truth and break us up, but I'm not there, primarily because of my daughter. We're good people... but what to do about getting these needs met??
So here I am, to read, connect, and share the best I can. I would like to meet other poly's in NM and the southwest, but interested in discussion and messaging here first.
Looking forward to meeting and talking with everyone!