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Old 03-28-2013, 04:16 AM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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Hon, ask your PEOPLE.

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"I would like to be able to enjoy affectionate gestures with both of you at a pace we all can be comfortable with. Where is that comfort line for each of you at this time? "
See what they say. Maybe you all want to review these sheets to get the conversation going in an organized way.

http://openingup.net/resources/free-...om-opening-up/

In particular, this one

http://openingup.net/wp-content/uplo...ecklist-OU.pdf

since you want to talk about affectionate gesture boundaries. Maybe you all want to do that sheet for initial agreements for the first 3 months and then do it again at to see if comfort levels have moved/needs changed and go for the next 3 mos?

I see that you are excited, I see that you are nervous. But could RELAX. Sort yourselves out and just enjoy what it is and the unfolding of whatever it may become.

Galagirl

Last edited by GalaGirl; 03-28-2013 at 04:35 AM.
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