It sounds like you are on a new plateau of your relationship! That's awesome!
The whole secondary thing is so tricky for those in it. So much to work out. It sounds like you are and that it took going through some stuff to come out in a different realm.
Hope to hear some stuff from your boyfriend maybe? I know Mono loves it when he know he isn't the only one in his situation.
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