Well please keep us posted, and let us know however we can help. Sometimes it helps just to have a place to vent, and know there's listening and sympathetic ears here for you.
It sounds like you are dealing with a lot of negativity and uncertainty, which you don't need. Please set healthy boundaries, and take care of yourself. Don't let yourself be talked into a situation that isn't good for you; put your foot down and insist on some changes for the better.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"