Every single person in our household is diagnosed.
The best helpful info I have found was a couple books by Dr. hallowell. (theres a website too).
Talks about 8 steps for managing ADD, including-but not limited to medication.
2 of us are primarily inattentive, 2hyperactive and 1is primarily impulsive.
It has made a HUGE difference (to the better) knowing what each of our weaknesses are and each of our strngths.
(typing on cell-sorry about spelling)
"Love As Thou Wilt"