^agreed. Adding Liam to this situation does not offer husband the comfort of being givin time to work this out but actually stresses him more.
We all have to make sacrifices for the ones we love, Liam will have to be yours til you work it out. And by that I mean
Actively address your husband, make him feel more comfortable with the situation. Hurt puppies don't magically heal themselves, love.
And if it ever comes up that it cannot be resolved, don't believe it! It's poppycock. Everything can be resolved, you just need to work harder and see the whole picture, consequences ad all.
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.