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Old 03-23-2013, 02:02 PM
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First, I have to correct myself, I meant metamor not paramor and we move on!

It's a natural progression. Just like there is 7 stages of grief, there are stages to working through this. Communication is key but I suggest giving him some time.

If you can maybe suggest to new guy that you need to chill til husband is on board, I know it sucks but by pushing him, u may lose him.
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