Your husband should accept who you are but his insecurities are clouding both your and his mind.
Is he afraid of sexual partners? Non-sexual partners? Or just not cool with you off with another man?
Have you told him how you feel? And how he's making you feel like a dirty ad guy for loving?
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.