Originally Posted by Ceoli
I have the right to be not just tolerated, but actively wanted by everyone in the primary relationship. I have the right to feel that I am not a problem or a compromise, but that I add value.
Thanks for this Ceoli, I will get back to reading the article later. I am sure it is a good one, Franklin writes some good and valid stuff that a lot of people can identify their own thoughts in. It's great he has a following and people can come together in his thoughts within this community.
Off the top of my head I would add that this above statement is true for any relationship, any configuration and in any circumstance. Even the rights of those of us that chose to engage on this forum have these rights. Mono relationships should practice this, BDSM relationships, the relationship I have with my son and the one I have with my family. Really good food for thought and words to live by as I engage everyone in my life. Thanks again.