Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
In my opinion, based on my own feelings and experiences, I think you can be born one way or another. I also think you can choose to live one way or the other. I also think you can be pressured into living one way or the other.
Here is a link that raltes to this topic.
That's pretty interesting :-)
Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit
I think there's ample evidence that we are born with certain "inclinations" the majority (possibly all) of which are subject to revision.
I think one of those inclinations are simplicity. There's wide variation in what people desire in their lives to be happy & feel complete. No different in relationships. Just like people with different sized appetites - we all become full at different points. No big deal. Eat until you are satisfied
"Eat until your satisfied", is that anything like "Have your cake and Edith?" ;-)