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Old 03-20-2013, 06:30 AM
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Marcus,
I don't really have any advice, and I think you got some excellent feedback. I just want to let you know that I am very moved by the compassion and concern you are showing for IV, while you work out your own frustration with the situation. I often like your posts, but you sometimes comes across as a bit of a hard-ass (that's not a bad thing!), so it is nice to see your tender side. I think you sound like a wonderful partner.

Tricky shit. So, thank you for starting this thread.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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