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Old 01-08-2010, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by rolypoly View Post
How do you all handle these sorts of scenarios?
They always say that you are having sex not just with the person, but with all the others that they are having sex with.

That's the approach I take - if I wouldn't have unprotected sex with person C, and I knew that person B *was* having unprotected sex with person C, then person B might as well be person C when it comes to what I do to protect myself.

In all of my relationships we make sure that there is a very clear, unambiguous talk about protection and what acts do and don't require it, given how they act with others. It's their right to act whichever way they want, it just has consequences in terms of how I act with *them*.
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