Thanks for the advice from everyone here. Now I guess I need to find myself a good divorce forum. Also am getting my girls to a counselor, and I myself am going to my own session to try to get some peace with all this.
I can't imagine how long the every-other day thing will be practical, but I'm thinking soon W would tire of it and ask to have every third or fourth day or something like that. That's what I'm hoping.
No more dating for me while I'm going through this. Strictly focusing on my girls, my job, and my hobbies.