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Old 03-19-2013, 06:19 PM
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Good riddance! You are better off. Now, start formulating your own personal boundaries so that you can ask your next potential partners whether or not they are willing to play by your guidelines. There is no way to negotiate if only one party has expectations!

Also, if you still think you want to be involved in poly arrangements in the future, keep reading this forum and http://www.morethantwo.com/polyforsecondaries.html for insight.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/

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