Originally Posted by Matt
Along with that divorce involves a custody dispute.
Kids, as noted by both of you will grow up and leave. In that process they will have relationships with people you don't (while still children).
Why exactly can't the two of you agree amicably to 50/50 parenting and respect one another as coparents?
Your issue isn't with your wife's parenting. So why create more pain and drama and expense?
Even if you win custody-she will have visitation rights and she will be allowed to socialize with anyone she wants WITH the kids.
Thats legal reality.
So, what is the gain of taking it to court battle? We aren't gorillas. There's no need to beat our fists against our chests to make a point.