I realized something recently (as in the past week when Primal started talking about leaving Lamian).
I'm less pissed now at what Peaseblossum or Lamian do (mind you both of them are fucking up, Lamian more so) but at the fact Primal keeps expecting these changes to happen, lets them know he wants changes, and then when they don't he either just gets upset and closes off or repeats he wants changes without stating what they are.
Woodsmith: My husband
Merry: Tig's wife/slave
N8: Merry's boyfriend/owner
Elle: N8 girlfriend
Ruby: Part of the Leather Family
Logan: Leather Sir in the Family
Arc: Logan's boy
Holly: Leather family
K: Holly's sub