Man, I have so much to learn and a great big stick to get out of my arse, LOL!!!! My first impression reading this was to cringe at all the drama. And here mono writes,
This is a great post SwtchwitchD! Personal experiences are a great source to learn from because they are lived, not hypothesized. Thanks for this!
I really, really value how much I learn from reading some of the responses on here. Thank you.
Switchwitch, I'm sad about how disempowering this situation is for you. I don't know what else to say.