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Old 03-15-2013, 03:34 AM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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I am sorry. Breaking up hurts, it always does. One must travel the stages of grief for what was lost.

In time, I hope you come to find that this experience opens you up to new relationships that better serve your needs and treat you the way you want to be treated in relationships. And perhaps this experience helps you tune into what sorts of open relationship models you can participate and thrive in.

Maybe you decide you just are not up for primary-secondary models at all. Or maybe it was a case of not up for primary-secondary model with THEM.

Regardless, know you have worth, dignity and value. Even if others treat your poorly -- that's about their poor conduct.

YOU have worth dignity and value and YOU can treat yourself as such. You do not deserve shenanigans.


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