Hello 50 Shades,
Welcome to our forum.
Even if you are a submissive in a D/s dynamic, you still have legitimate needs and can talk them over with your companions. You'd like some private date time with them. That seems reasonable. Let them know that this is something you want, and see what they have to say.
Have a look around our site and see what calls to you, and it's not a problem if you have any thoughts or questions you want to post.
Enjoyed your intro, wish I was in Seattle! Cool city.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"