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Old 01-08-2010, 02:44 AM
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I really love the advice you all give each other. I'm in heaven.

For what it's worth, this doesn't sound like an ultimatum to me.

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if he was seeking "a monogomous life partner which by definition would preclude our relationship," then I could not see him while he dated for that purpose. I stated that if he was seeking to "add a partner to our poly relationship" that I was a-ok and he would have my full support.
It does sound like a way of saying, "I felt hurt when you cancelled our date because I was looking forward to seeing you and I am scared that you might not want to be with me because I can't offer an exclusive relationship..."
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