Originally Posted by ConfusedBryan
Interesting question: Should I let my wife see and read this post? On one hand it may show her what I'm thinking, but on the other I'm not sure how she will read into this... I already told her that I was posting to a site that was belping me.
Maybe you can use it as a jumping off point with conversations about your future togetherness and how you would like to play this out?
But regardless of what your wife does I do think it would be wise for you to pay attention to the advice about being open with any potential partners, it is crushing to feel that you are being used by someone until their other relationship works out.