Awesome advice, we have joined our local poly group and will start from there. Also regarding the poly dating sites, if you are using a poly friendly dating site like ok cupid do you divulge your polyamorous lifestyle in your "about me" or just leave your profile as "seeing someone" and looking for friends without mentioning anything regarding poly in your profile until a 1:1 convo has been started with someone?
I have read a few threads that have shown concern over finding dates on these sites when polyamorous is mentioned outright. Not sure if people just say that they are "single" to get dates then drop the bomb or are honest from the getgo?
We are finding that on okcupid with being honest about our poly relationship in our profile, we get alot of lookers but for the most part we are getting snubbed. Any advice?