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Old 03-14-2013, 02:08 AM
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If I'm understanding right: You don't see Bob often, which you're okay with because you have a lot of independence; however, you feel that since your opportunities to see Bob are so limited, you should get just a little more privacy (i.e., have it be "just you-and-Bob time"), and, you should get a little more opportunity to see Bob when you can.

I think those are reasonable things to want, even if Bob and Ann have a different arrangement that is incompatible with what you want. Perhaps it just comes down to a question of whether to keep the relationship with Bob going, if he and Ann are unwilling to compromise a little more, but I would at least discuss your feelings with Bob first and find out if there is a chance of some compromise.

That's how I see it anyway.
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