Originally Posted by dingedheart
It sounded to me that you've had to settle along the way too and to me that would never be the case in the imagined ideal. So are you saying your next relationship will be a poly dynamic with you as a secondary but with you having biological children ?
Who's names are on the birth certificates ? Does Harry use your name.
I'd get the paternity documented and consult with an attorney you could be on the hook for child support.
I guess I have settled for things along the way, but I have had the most amazing time, so I think it would be a bit rich for me to complain to loudly! Also, my wife sees things differently to what I do, although certain things she cannot contest!
Alex is the boys Dad, and his name is on the birth certificate. It would not be an issue anyways, neither Alex, nor myself have any financial issues!