Because I was asked to seriously consider a "poly" relationship. I am here to learn with an open mind.
Intellectually I agree with Lotusesandroses. The more I look at myself, and past relationships, the more I am starting to believe the it is hardwired into our brains.
But, that doesn't mean I believe it is for everyone.
I think that is why I am searching and trying to learn as much as I can, to see if it is for me!