Thank you for your input everyone. I have discussed this with him and I believe if I understand him correctly he has opted to just be monogamous. He has not stated that I have to be, but that he just feels that it is not for him right now and maybe ever. I am not looking to have a parade of partners in my life now or ever mater of fact I have only one other person that I have been involved with.
I am not the type of person to have casual relationships, or one night stands. For me it is really about connecting in all ways. I think this may be what has had him worried in the past. the fear of me becoming to connected to another that he gets left out and does not get the amount of attention that he needs. I have tried to be more mindful of this lately and been more careful to not be so talkative about my other. It could very well be that the NRE was causing some of the problems. That has settled now.