Originally Posted by doxyflower
It isnt that I have run out of desire...just that our sexual dynamic has become so painful for both of us I have felt that to perhaps put it on hold and get it healthy again while we work through these other things might be best. That said I DO understand that without ANY physical intimacy between us his feelings of rejection seem even greater than before.
What you wrote really struck a chord with me. I don't want to be overly nosy, but if you felt okay with it, could you maybe expand on your thoughts above? You managed to put into words something I have been struggling with for quite a while now, and I'd love a chance to talk to you about your experiences and thoughts. If not, I understand, it's very personal.