Welcome to the Forum Brittany.
I really understand the need to find people around that understand what you're up to, and can provide support...even if it's not something they would do themselves. And of course the entire purpose of place like this Forum is to provide the support from people who are going through the same.
There looks to be some activity in your area as well...so in addition to the awesome collection of folks around here, you could also see about meeting new poly friends to support you locally as well:
Look forward to hearing more from you.