Thread: Poly? Or lying?
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Old 01-07-2010, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted by StitchwitchD View Post
I hear you on the vulnerability thing.

What would bother me about the situation is that your guy has been leading the other guy along...
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My assumption is that a partner is likely to treat me in a similar way...

Exactly! I can't say that I'm clear on how I feel at this point and I am focusing a lot on the fears this brings up in me, so that I can face them.

But, definitely; a partner is going to treat me the same way he treats his other partner.

Be warned of the dynamic that plays out with a person who likes to please others and isn't honest with themself! Either the person burns out and then suddenly drops a bomb. Or they slowly fester and start resenting because they're doing things they don't actually feel in their heart.
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