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Old 03-11-2013, 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted by RainyGrlJenny View Post
Part of it is that she expresses romance through over-the-top statements and words. However, the typical rom-com/mono love story effusions make poly me itchy and uncomfortable.
Something I learned the hard way, is that we tend to do/say the things we want/need from our partner, instead of doing/saying the things they need to feel loved. Where hearing the over-the-top sappy romantic stuff weirds you out (it does me too ), maybe she is desperate to hear sappy sweet nothings from you, because that's what makes her feel loved (or one of the things).
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