Im sorry i do not know how this ended up in your post when i replied to my thread. It just somehow landed someone where. But i do appreciate you taking the time to responding back, it is very one sided and it hurts all i have is that one final limit that will take me to the conclusion of leaving. I like her alot and i love my boyfriend, but tif this can not work out than it can not. I will nor he force someone into this and it feels like we are. she claims otherwise but her actions are soooo obvious that she isnt comfortable with this. I just hope that in the next week or so it gets better if not i will have to bid my fairwells.