Again... y'all sound fine then.
People on a support forum seek support. So I was confused when you ask
Yet in this forum it seems many people have problems. Their working on something,adjusting, four years later their still working on it ect.
Why bother if there are so many problems? Are the rewards that great? How good is it for the wives or girlfriends?
because I think you could be asking...
Are the rewards of polyship great enough to endure working through problems in the polyship for years?
and that is only something the people inside that particular polyship can answer for themselves. The question of "Is this still worth it to me? "