Aww, good, I'm glad it was useful. I hope everything works out for you. Being your own primary really is the way to go. Doesn't mean you can't have a co-primary or two, but you've gotta look out for yourself.
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.