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Old 03-11-2013, 06:11 PM
BoringGuy BoringGuy is offline
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The thing about it that bugs me (and what bothered me in that other thread) is when the person who is making an offer "just to be nice" acts like it's YOUR PROBLEM for not realizing they didn't mean it.

I guess I started this thread just to hear people sound off about it, and share examples. I really don't expect to gain new insights or perspectives or anything like that because most of the regulars here seem disposed to be in agreement (but TGIG, this is like the third time in one week you've agreed with me; this is moving too fast - I'm not ready to take our relationship to that level yet), and this is a fundamental part of self-awareness which is important to strive for, especially when it comes to non-monogamous relationships.
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