Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
I admit to being poly because I am in love with two.
Everything LR said. I might change this bit, though, to say I admit to being capable
of poly. Unlike some others, I have never looked for multiple relationships, nor do I think I would if one of my current relationships ended.
They are a LOT of work. But they happen. My "version" of poly is dealing with the reality of falling in love with someone else while still in love with my husband. Didn't intend for it to happen, but it did, so for better or for worse this is now the frame I'm working within. Yes, the issues might be magnified compared to a mono relationship, but the good times are too.