Originally Posted by westVan
Thank you for your response but that has not been my experience
Do primaries always have the “veto power”, dictate how and when dates are, can call and request updates while the date is in progress, say no sleep over’s (when she goes away with her BF for 3-4 days a month), has the rule that I send her thank-you e-mails every time I do have a date with her husband?
What is the experience of other secondary’s?
No, not "always". ^^That's fucked up. You've been putting up with that for three years?