first message form guy:
hi, let's meet!
his profile says we're a 50% match. to the question 'I spend a lot of time thinking about..' his only answer is: Sex.
to the question 'would you ever consider an open relationship' his answer is 'no'. So, I don't respond.
comes a second message: 'so, you're looking at my profile but not saying anything?'
should've stopped right there. but I'm feeling confrontational and reply:
to the question 'would you ever consider an open relationship' your answer is 'no'. if you had read my profile, you would know that this means we're not exactly a good match'.
his reply: 'hi babe! I did not mean that of course. I suck at filling out forms. I would love an open relationship, even if it was just for kissing other women! I love kissing!'
seriously. how do these guys ever expect to find someone on a dating site?
Cleo - forties straight female
Ren - husband of 20 years
Bo - BF of 1+ year
Lou & Jane - Ren's girlfriends
Lin - Bo's other GF