We are all out to everyone. Both the guys are out at work (both also have supervisor positions in their respective fields).
I am out at school.
All of our friends and family know.
It's just not something I can imagine trying to keep secret.
The three of us live together-have for 10 years. We're raising kids-we're out with them as well.
I often say, I just don't do closets well & poly is no exception.
"Love As Thou Wilt"