However, a thought crossed my mind. Could your BFF be harboring romantic feelings for you? Maybe feelings she can't even acknowledge to herself?
MD said the same thing when we were talking about it. I really don't think so, as we have had convos about my bisexuality way before I even had the notion of actually exploring it. She said she could understand, but just didn't feel that way about women.
For her, I'd guess it's more about a closeness and friendship with MD that I now have that I don't have with her. Not that she wants the sexual/romantic relationship with me, but now I have another female in my life that shares "more" with me than she does. I say "more" in quotes, because I don't view it that way at all. But I do think my friend does.
franchescasc-33, bi female, likely monogomish formerly in triad relationship with:
FJ-36, married 15 yrs
MD-35, gf for 8 months
Currently dating SM, male, 40, monogamous