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Old 03-10-2013, 05:15 AM
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People should not use the word "fine" for so many different things . . . When you say you're "fine" but you really mean "leave me alone", you send a message that messes with a person's perception of reality.
There's a saying in 12-Step programs...

When someone says "I'm fine," what they really mean is that they are:
Fucked-up,
Insecure,
Neurotic, and
Emotional.
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