Why is his position of what he wants out his marriage or relationship intransigent. Couldn't this be characterized as a reverse awakening. Shouldn't he be suggesting mono books, mono pod cast to try to convince the " unenlightened " partner.....kidding of course but you get the idea.
Decisive moments do happen ....moments of reflection do point the way knowing you want x or you want y. He wants 100% back from the 100% given ...he doesnt want to live by committee ....or whatever ....its not defending a barricade.
Good luck Matt and FOL
Last edited by dingedheart; 03-10-2013 at 01:03 AM.