View Single Post
  #10  
Old 03-09-2013, 04:45 PM
Icewraithonyx Icewraithonyx is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 60
Default

I would also chime in a vote for all three. In my case, I think cultural programming has more to do with it. I'm worried about Wife's lover because I'm worried that will reflect on me as being "inadequate". When a husband has a lover, it's often assumed it's because men are inherently unfaithful. When a wife has a lover, it's often assumed it's because the husband is somehow lacking. Another unfair social norm.
Reply With Quote