Is that too much to ask? Am I being unrealistic? If I am, I'll settle for one boyfriend, but ideally there'd be two. And they'd be blond. Twinks.[/QUOTE]
Welcome to the club, drinks half-priced after ten and ladies get in for free with a friend.
No, not unrealistic at all. But I'll tell you the same thing I tell everyone else that I see get that little twinkle in their eyes when entertaining the concept of multiple lovers; master ONE first, THEN add more.
If your relationship skills suck (not saying they do) then adding more people is not a solution. Try for a steady and functioning relationship with one guy for a while, letting him know that you've got poly on the brain, and once you've got a good grip on that then I'd suggest grabbing a few more.
I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."