Thread: Poly? Or lying?
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Old 01-07-2010, 02:18 AM
StitchwitchD StitchwitchD is offline
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I hear you on the vulnerability thing.

What would bother me about the situation is that your guy has been leading the other guy along, letting him think things are fine, going to see him- and then planning on dumping him after spending a few weeks acting like everything is fine? Or possibly telling you he's planning to dump other guy, when he has no intentions of doing so, just going along with whatever will make the person he's currently with happy, because he has serious problems being assertive?

My assumption is that a partner is likely to treat me in a similar way to however he's treated other partners- and I very much prefer to get to hear their side of things.
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