Originally Posted by Livingmybestlife
My personnel relationship was not fraught with issues bout poly. They were and are about individual baggage. I think it is navie to say a mono relationship to say isn't always a work in progress. That said the past 2 years I would have had. Mental breakdown without both relationships. Yes, my relationship with my bf just ended, but it wasn't about me. The ending was organic in he wanted a different path without intergrity. My choice was to end the relationsip and remember sweetly the very good relationship I had with him instead of going into something I couldn't handle. Yes, we both hurt but the pure joy of that click the high of mingling souls from awesome sex high. Worth it every time. Poly with respect is awesome.
If you feel alot of love with someone does that mean you love them alot?