I posted last week in the middle of a Poly tizzy. Ready to introduce myself and my chosen ones.
Me= K, 39, female, Polyamorous for 7 years, out of the closet for 3 years.
T= 35, 1st polyamorous relationship, live-in male partner of 1.5 years
Y = polyamorous 17 years, non- live-in male partner of K of 7 years
R = polymorous 1year, non live in male partner of K of 4 years, new developing relationship with T
J= non live in female prospect (not a partner yet) of T- monogamous leaning but experimental.
We don't use the term primary and secondary except at times when it's helpful to other people. there are enough differences, challenges and blessings in all of it that we don't add that layer, but we do a lot of explaining so we relegate to those descriptions at times.
We have started a small poly group locally in the Central, VA area and looking forward to our first gathering on 3/9!!